talents

I heard the parable today about the three servants who were given talents to care for in their master’s absence. One got five and doubled them. Another got two and doubled them. The third got one talent and buried it out of fear. When the master returned, he was not happy with the third one who had buried his talent. He took it from him and gave it to the first servant. It doesn’t seem fair, does it? But I sort of understand.

I must not bury my one small talent because I judge it to be insignificant. I must use it and try to make it grow. All of our individual talents are important to the world. Does it matter that I cannot sing operatic arias and entertain thousands of people, when I can instead sing quiet, peaceful songs to a nursing home resident and lift her spirits? It matters to her. What if I said, “Oh, I’m not an accomplished chef. I’m not going to cook at all.” Who would cook for the family? If I said, “I’ll never be able to write poetry like Dickinson, or Hopkins, or Rumi,” how would my unique voice be heard by those who need to hear it? All of our individual, small talents matter tremendously to someone. I am grateful for the courage I have been given to put my talents to use. And I am doubly grateful for all those whose talents brighten my day in countless ways.

The heart knows how, when and where our talents are to be employed or invested. “The heart has its reasons of which reason knows nothing. “ Blaise Pascal. Oh the mystery of love.

my favorite dahlia

my favorite dahlia

 

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I’m planning to design a scavenger hunt for our Thanksgiving guests this year. The girls and I were talking about what to do on Thanksgiving Day before we sit down to eat dinner and it was one of the ideas that surfaced. Now that this imaginative notion came to light, I really need to tap into my creative center to accomplish it. I notice the same process in myself that I employ in writing. First an idea pops into my head. (From where, I don’t know.) I mull it over, envisioning scenarios for some time. Finally I sit down to write, and the characters, who by now have become real in my mind, tell the story. Can this creativeness be forced? Can I simply apply methods I learn about in books? Where does the story or poem come from?

You know how when you read a poem, you think, (at least, I do,) “I could have written that.” It seems so simple. And maybe it is. Maybe the poem or the song or the story is just out there waiting for someone to grab onto it and write it down. I don’t know. But that creative spark in all of us should be kindled and fanned into flame. We can set the world on fire. Thank God that we can cooperate in the plan of creation.

 

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creation

Another thing I am grateful for is the creative spirit I see all around. Everyone, I think, has a creative spark and the satisfaction one feels when tapping into this energy is revitalizing. It is as though new life comes out of saying yes to creation. It seems that it is a deep part of our self that resonates with our own creative genius. The urge to create brings forth tremendous good in the world. So many variations and expressions are necessary to the total picture. Everything, from cooking, to dance, to knitting, to creating a welcoming atmosphere, to singing, drawing, woodwork, photography, writing, even simply being a smile in a frowning world: all connect us to the one creator of all goodness. It is impossible to enumerate all the ways in which people create, but I’m going to be watching and giving thanks for all that I see.

birthday cake

birthday cake

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Lincoln

I’ve always admired Abraham Lincoln and not only because we share the same birthday. He was a true statesman, an honest man and a man of conscience. When I learned that he was the first president to officially name the fourth Thursday in November as a day to give thanks and declare it a national holiday, my admiration increased. (Although, it wasn’t until 1941 that it was declared an annual national holiday.) The fact that he did this in the midst of a brutal war dividing the country impressed me even more. It’s easy to give thanks when all is going well, but to focus on our blessings when under attack—that’s real gratitude. So today I will try to give thanks for the things I find difficult and the things with which I struggle. In hindsight, it is always those things that make me grow.

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first frost

I’ve been waiting for the first frost eagerly. It has been an unusually warm fall and has delayed my putting the gardens to bed for the winter. How can I kill blooming plants? But now that it has frosted, I can cut back the perennials and uproot the annuals without guilt. It is time.

This is a great time of year. I remember, growing up in Northern Michigan, those sunny fall days, crisp air, piles of maple leaves to jump into, the smell of wood fires keeping houses warm and cozy. I’m sure there were cloudy, rainy days, but I don’t remember them. The clarity of those sunny fall days stays with me, and the invigorating freshness of the cool air still energizes me. I am thankful for the frost and the memories it brings.

 

fall colors

fall colors

 

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sunshine

A day of sunshine in the midst of the rainy season: what a wonderful gift. I was in several neighborhoods of Seattle on this sunny Saturday and everybody and their kids and dogs were enjoying the sunshine. People pushing baby carriages, people jogging by, walking with espressos, sitting at sidewalk cafes, couples walking arm in arm: it seemed like a holiday. I guess it was, holy I mean. Holy as in blessed or sanctified. Funny how a little bit of sunshine can help us to appreciate nature. We need the rain, for where would we be without it? It would be a desert, and I for one can only handle a little bit of time in the desert. That’s why I live in the Pacific Northwest where everything is green—all the time. But I am oh so thankful for a few days of sunshine.

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grandparenthood

Giving thanks for my granddaughters, who are becoming beautiful young women, warms my heart. I enjoyed their infanthood, toddlerhood and so many stages of their young lives. I treasure so many memories of our special times together. But as I see their personalities and talents develop, it’s rewarding to be able to appreciate the unique gifts they are to the world. Grandparenthood is the best. Without the day-to-day struggles and irritations, grandparents can take the long view and have faith and hope for their future and offer unconditional love. I am very grateful that I can be an integral part of my granddaughters’ lives.

Ruah and Leah

Ruah and Leah

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birthdays

Today is Bud’s birthday and I am thankful for so many things about him: Like, his gourmet cooking and winemaking, his ability to fix anything, for keeping our finances in order, his faithfulness, his musical ability, his spirituality, how he humors me–and I could go on. I asked Ruah and Leah what they appreciated about him. Ruah said she is thankful that he teaches her things every time she visits. Last summer he taught her how to operate the backhoe and she thought that was a lot of fun—and useful. Leah is really grateful for all the good food he makes, especially boiled dinners. She appreciates that he allows her to work in the shop with him and use his tools. So we are very grateful today as we celebrate his birthday.

Bud at Lost Lake

Bud at Lost Lake

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the science of gratitude

Did you know that expressing gratitude or even thinking about thankfulness does change the chemistry in one’s brain? It’s amazing how a mood can shift in the midst of seeming despair. Gratitude increases the neurotransmitter dopamine in the brain: a feel good, natural substance for an instant high. Wow! Why don’t I express gratitude all the time? A study done by researchers at NIH (National Institutes of Health) found that subjects who showed more gratitude also showed more blood flow to the hypothalamus, which controls many body functions. Another Wow! Gratitude can make you healthier.

 

This science is all well and good, but how do I apply it to my daily life? I think it takes awareness and practice—mindfulness. Today, regardless of my emotions, thoughts, memories or feelings I intend to give thanks. If you have any suggestions on techniques or practices that work for you, please let me know. I would be very grateful.

Cruz de ferro

Cruz de ferro

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different folks

Even though there are some people with whom I do not want to spend much time, I am grateful for their gifts and the vast variety of gifts I observe in others. How dull the world would be if we were all the same. And if all were like me, how inefficient it would be. Different viewpoints, different talents, different experiences, and different struggles: I am in awe of how it all works together. In the ideal world, all would celebrate diversity, be open to differences and seek to learn from them. Expressing gratitude is one way for me to open those channels, and even when those differences cause strife and struggle, it can be an opportunity to grow. Thank goodness!

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